Unplanned dinner with the family

Today I was booked to meet 2 of my good friends in town but I felt so tired, and very sleepy and at the same time it is pouring rain. My husband also wants us to go out and eat lunch at a restaurant. I don’t really feel well. I cancelled my meeting to my friends and sleep instead.

At 5:00 PM my husband nagged again telling me we should go out and eat dinner, I finally agreed.

First we went to a friend who just opened a hair saloon. I decided to cut my long hair while I have it. Maybe I will lose my hair later on if I will get chemo therapy and such. So be it! My daughter who lives in the vicinity came and joined us later and she took pictures of my new hair style. Later on we went to a Pizzeria Restaurant and ate kebab plate for dinner. Then came my former son-in-law with our grandkids and we ate dinner all together.

After eating I suddenly felt freezing and I felt like I had a fever so we went home. I took my temperature when coming home and I had 38.6 °C so yes I got fever. I am still eating that antibiotics which I got from my doctor at Salgrenska for my unrinary tracts inflammation. I took a couple of Alvedon and I sweat then my fever was gone

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I am a swedish citizen with asian origin, lives in Sweden, entrepreneur, accountant, fashion designer, dressmaker, professional interpreter and translator and from year 2014, I also became a local politician with some assignments from the local government. I moved to Sweden after marriage with a Swedish national in 1986. Two years later we got a son followed by a daughter after 21 months. Satisfied with life in fact, I guess I got all I wished for, it feels I have everything. Being married is not just a bed of roses, the roses have thorns also and you can get it at times but we’ve always been doing pretty good. Kinder and better husband I do not think I can get, everyone has their flaws and life becomes easier if you can accept them. I’m not a perfect person either. I became a grandmother quite young, only 45 years old, was a little skeptical at first but then I loved to be one. Now I am already a grandmother of two, a boy and a girl of 20 months between them, such a great feeling, it feels like it was a replay of my life. When I have both of them at home, it feels like I was young again and is the mother of small children. I can not explain but so damn good it is. When I moved to Sweden I knew nothing about the country, but now it feels like I’ve always lived here. I speak Swedish better than my native language, better in Swedish grammar than my husband, it may sound strange but it’s true. I dream even in Swedish. I hang out with many Swedes, have worked and still working in Swedish companies. I go to the Swedish church though I am a Roman Catholic. We believe in the same God anyway. I’ve adapted pretty well in Swedish society. I think I have to adjust to that country I moved to, not the country or its citizens to adapt to me. Sweden has no responsibility whatsoever that I wanted to move here so I could not demand anything else, but now a citizen, I think I have the right as any other native Swedes. I pay taxes and do my duties as a citizen. I think I am a good role model and a loyal citizen and can fight for my new country.

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